Hello reader.
Please forgive me for my extended absence.
I have a pressing matter that I wish to convey to you....and the rest of the immense blogging community...
How do you know when you like someone?
My recent and ridicules relationships (2 pts for my alliteration!) of the past year have made me seriously question my selection process. Apparently I have no CLUE how to choose men, and I need help. Or a session with a psychologist....but let's start with the latter :-)
Reader I need some insights. If you're feeling up to it, and wouldn't mind helping a sister in need (how can you turn down a sister in need?!) then write to me...
and tell me!
how you decide if you like someone. And similarly, tell me how you decide between 2 guys you see as definite possibilities?
I'm trying to do the whole...just date both at the same time-thing....but that gives me ulcers. I'm a one man kind of woman. I like to know who I want; I like to know what I'm going for.
Being unsure is unsettling. I don't like it.
In other news I am presenting my paper for the first time this Saturday! Upper academia here I come!
EXCEPT....
I've barely begun to practice (YIKES!). I have to cut my 8 paged paper down to 6. Every line or paragraph I scratch out feels like I'm killing one of my babies. It hurts. And it's a little scary...to me, it's all important! Thanks to my good friend jonathan, a fresh set of new eyes should help in the process.
Wish me luck reader...this is what I've been looking forward to all semester...
and don't forget to leave your advice! Mucho Gracious.